Consistent Parenting
Consistent Parenting
I believe a consistent parenting style grows calm parents and well-adapted children, the perfect recipe for a happy family.
As an elderly learner and family counselor with years of experience in behavioral behavior, it is clear to me that many parents struggling to keep peaceful children and a calm household live in unconventional, unpredictable circumstances. They then have more often than not a lack of self-discipline in their lives.
This lack of consistency then shows clearly in their parenting style. This causes clear problems in everyday routines such as eating times, bathing & sleeping time. This, coupled with poor limitations and contradictions in terms of contravention of borders, which push out of control, it is no surprise that temper tantrums and over-fatigue are the order of the day in such households.
I also determined that the vast majority of people asking for help are usually warm, loving, intelligent people who do everything in their power to bring security and happiness to their children. They are usually usually cultivated when their family lives are under pressure, instead of the environment they are trying to create.
If you are inconsistent in yourself and it causes inconsistency in your parenting, it is good news because it is much easier to work on and improve yourself than it is to work for someone else.
LOOK ON WHAT IS NOT Consistent Parenting
Consistent parenting is not about being stubborn, and unchangeable / inflexible. It is also not about the execution of strict routines and schedules. It is also not about you as supreme authority that is inflexible, strict, dictator and dominant. Also, forget about the fact that consistent parenting is one-off. On the contrary, consistent parenting creates more control for both parents and children. There is much more spontaneity, adventure and surprises in families who practice consistency.
WHY? Because of the calm, centered and non-fussing of children, everyday children have a better capacity for challenges and adventures. In fact, a consistent parenting style for inflexible.
WHAT IS CONSIDERED PARENT? What does it mean to be consistent? This means you are trustworthy, trustworthy and constant. Consistent parenting is about to know what we mean and to be intrigued. Keep constant in your pursuit for the best for you and your children are emotionally mature as parents, recognize when you can do better than parent and recognize If you have done well with your task.
